BEING SEXY, ARE YOU REALLY NEEDED?

34-25-33 (Good Body)   

35-23-34 (Whoa! Body)

36-24-39-36 (Perfect Figure!)

Is this what sexy really means?? Does your figure defines who you are? Does your eyes show desire? Are your lips temping?When they say sexy, what do we usually picture in our mind? The perfect vital statistic? Perfect curves? Flawless fair skin? Long legged ? Shinny hair? Tantalizing eyes? Pointed nose? Rossy cheeks?

Sexiness is what really attracts men. For them, shape matter if you want to be notice. Men usually base their judgement on some standards which they set by themselves alone.

60% - Figure (body shape)

15%- Fashion statement

10%- Intellectual ability

15%- Manner and behavior

These standards are common among men that only focuses on the figure of women. Like what you see in movies, where a beautiful lady shows off some of her skin to give some sense of sexiness. Whether men or women, SEXINESS IS IRRESISTABLE.But are these the only way to be called “sexy”? Do you really have to wear fitted clothes to show your curves? To wear short shorts or skirt to show your legs? Do you need to always untie your hair so that the wind will naturally blew it? What if you cant do these things? Are you considered an outcast? Or a leper?

In reality the given criteria is really the basis of sexiness but not all men or women are agreeing to this. You dont really have to put yourself surround yourself with this type of people just to be  “belong”. Remember, not all people has the same vital statistics that captivates attention from other people. Dont let your body define who you are. And dont ever let anybody dictates who should be.

Being true to yourself and doing good to others is what really makes someone sexy. Sexiness comes from within, if you feel you are sexy then people around you will feel the same way. You always need to believe in yourself. This is the number one ingredient in achieving anything we want.

Some people think intelligence makes a person sexy. Some says kindness is sexy. People have different views about sexiness that is why you should not relay to only one person.

Remember, you cant please everybody.           

Waht my pen says about sexiness??

“The absence of being sexy should not make you feel pity and empty. For it should not dictate your personality and never destroy your dignity.”