Confidence its how you perceive yourself.

One quote says that when a positive thing happens, it gives us optimism and confidence a boost which prompts us to seek out more good experience. When something good happens, is it because of luck or because of your confidence. However, many say that what you think as your lucky day has nothing to do with luck at all.

Familiar with the domino effect? It’s when something if not someone makes us feel good we take on a whole new different attitude. We tend to put a mindset that things we expect will work in our favor. The good side of this is that it turns us to be less afraid in trying new things.

Example??

When a good looking guy tells you that you look gorgeous, the tendency is you will be more eager or willing to see and to be seen by more people. These may cause you to be more outgoing to prove or to see if the compliment you receive is true or not. However, this will help us to feel good and comfortable in meeting new people. Therefore, we may haven the gut to take the step to introduce ourselves to people we don’t really know. Moreover, this makes us new contacts who may lead us to new opportunities.

Angel Locsin once said in one of her interview, "When good and positive things happen to me it makes me exponentially more confident and makes me feel that I can take bigger risk on my career, on every decision I have to make."

Why some people get to have promotion? It's because of their confidence. They feel exude confidence, others are more likely to drawn to you and think of you as being capable. When you have confidence, you tend to attract "trust" from the people around you.

Above all these, we cannot force people to give us compliments to boost our confidence. Sometimes we need to wait for things to happen usually feel out of control yet those who actively seek out feel more powerful.

Learn to take small risks. A little on sort of anxiety is a good thing. It’s just a proof that you can make nervousness work in your favor. You don’t really need to banish the so called butterflies in your stomach to get a killer confidence. Don’t worry; feeling nervous is good at some point.

Always reminded that being confident is really about how you perceive yourself and not how others perceive about you. If you act confident and asserting that you know what too are doing, you will really start to believe it and other people will, too.

Here are some tips to boost your confidence:

1. Surround yourself by people whom you know would make you forget whatever your down about.

2. Tell yourself “I can do it!".

3. Think positively and trust yourself.

4. Pray to God.

5. Wear an outfit you’re comfortable with.

6. Go out and have fun!!

“Confident people hold themselves differently; they stand up straighten, smile more and actually look brighter and happier." -Beverly Engel, author of the Nice Girl Syndrome.